Sis, if a man can sit across from you, talk your ear off, and not even cover a $10.95 tab, that’s not “gold digging” that's expecting to be valued.

When you love yourself enough, you stop entertaining men who can’t even make the smallest gesture to show interest.

My girlfriends will pick up a dinner tab without thinking twice. We plan trips, we pour into each other, we invest in each other. That’s the standard.

Men who want your time without effort, energy, or reciprocity are only offering DUST and LUST:

💋 We’re moving past that.
💋 We’re setting boundaries that protect our peace and our standards.
💋 We’re not apologizing for it.

This is where you stop giving energy to what drains you for good.

We are not begging for attention.
We are not chasing approval.
We are not settling for crumbs.

Inside, you’ll:

🌺 Spot the hidden patterns that keep pulling you into toxic cycles
🌺 Build boundaries you never have to explain or apologize for
🌺 Create a personal protection plan so you never fall into the same traps again

You don’t have to fix the past to create a better future you just have to start.